what matters most
[ 7:23:00 am ]
My secondary school classmates and I were supposed to have our reunion this evening but because so many others couldn't make it and our birthday gal herself had fallen ill, we decided to postpone things..and I'm given the task to organize our next meet-up, due before CNY! I'm excited to make things happen and I miss all those peeps so terribly too. Lately I've been thinking on what matters most in our lives and relationships indeed ranked really high up there. Just imagine who you'd want to have standing by your side when you're old and wrinkled at fifty and beyond.
I guess in every relationship, be it with that someone special or with friends and family, character really counts and will always count. I'm happy and I feel very blessed to have great friends whom I know will always be there for me. So thank you, thank you, thank you... to all my friends. : )
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Speaking about relationships, too many people (family & relatives included) have asked me about it...
my girlfriends can't wait to have my boyfriend join us (along with their boyfriends) in our gatherings
my uncle can't wait to be promoted to a Grand-Uncle (!!!!)
my mum can't wait to proudly "show-off" her future son-in-law
my dad (although he doesn't say it) can hardly wait to "scan" this guy from head to toe
my cg members have started match-making
my aunties are all pushing me
my brother….
oh well, he's just about the ONLY ONE who couldn't be bothered by my relationship status...hahah, it's true..!
I know I've said so much...but relax, people.. there's no one in mind and there's no need for hurry. :)
And I'm really not dying to get into one. To me, it's another year given to really buck up and do the best in everything I set my heart to do, be the best daughter around, be the best leader I can, be the best friend I know how, be the best employee in the bank..be my best in everything!
And it is a year to be further molded and changed by God. In order to be someone better, sharper, deeper, stronger.
So the final verdict is: I won't get into a relationship until I'm totally ready.
Because I believe that you don't get into one because you need to, but when you have to. When it's time for me to enter into deeper relationship so that I can contribute to it and in the course of being in it, draw even closer to God and become a better Christian, I will. So trust me, alright. I'm placing my trust in God.
okey, 'nuff said. :)